Hi arnie, No kids are involved but we have a house that she moved out of. The biggest challenge is we are going to Co. The Co suggests that since she is so conflicted right now and has too much going on (yes he said OM must be foregotten)but she rally cares about me (said she cried) but also has trenendus guilt. He says that I should take her calls if I am emotionally stable at the time and can keep R talk out of it. Yes w and I have discussed her losing connection to me and I know how I help facilitate that.
!st 2 weeks we did not talk. 3rd week she called me multiple times crying about the fact that she hurt me and felt terrible. 4
4th week Co tells me she isstill involved with OM so I address it. She tells me she is only seeing him so the guy will let her 20yo S and his friends have a bachloer party at his house. That he offered weeks ago and S has pressured her not to break up yet. She says no sex. But yet this eekend she comes back and he takes her out for her b-day!
As luck would have it wells fargo called and needs more stuff from us and after a couple emails we had to talk. It was positve, kept to the house stuff but than she asked me if we could talk after the Co? She told me I could tell him about the sitch her S has put her in. She is seeing him on Thurs so I told her she could do it. This house mess she left me is killing me and screws up my plan for keeping the light off.
