(((((Sandy))))) I don't think I am too impressed. You don't ask if you can kiss someone, and then not get out of the car to say good-bye. You don't tell someone, "We will sit there". You say, "Would you like to sit in the bar? They have a nice happy hour." You don't assume they don't want a menu. Etc.
Lots of mixed signals to me. Maybe he is just socially inept. But, is that a just, or part of his makeup that will nag at you every day?