It never ceases to amaze me how off the deep end things can get with WAS's.
Perhaps your inlaws dont know the whole story either. a month ago I told my XW that we need to wrap up the annulment. She suggested I use her mother as a witness. I then told her that I will discuss whatever I need to in order to make it happen and that includes all her dirty little secrets over the past few years. It was the first time I saw her snap out of la-la land in two years. Her fantasy world was threatened because she had been lying all along.
At some point you have to defend your character.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08