yep kissak having the same thoughts abuot the lies. at present he has difficulty hiding lies but if he gets practice... I am trying to rearrange things so the opportunity for that type of behaiour is minimised LOL. I was working nights throughout the week but if I stop those then that time when he stays over well they disappear. It will also make him face the relationship he is in with the OW more. At present it is like an escape for him. He gets away from her for a night throughout the week. I am going to start looking at ways of minimising time he is at home here as well. I mean he was here all weekend. I spose part of me fears that he'll want to do something about the house. I live in it I am paying for it, but when something was raised a while ago he wants to buy it and move me out! part of me says that would be good, fresh start blah blah blah. another part goes this is MY home. I decorated it I chose it I have a great support system here. I think that I would prefer to stay. I just don't want to fight.
