I say nothing wrong with being friends. I have a friend (a guy) that we go back and forth as to who buys dinner when we get together. I don't plan on not being his friend just because I am dating some one. Maybe they just started seeing each other...who knows.

have fun, kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory