(((((Alb))))) I agree with giving him the space he needs. Actually, I think you may be being a bit too available to him now. I know he says he doesn't feel it as pressure, but I think in his conflicted mind, it is. I wouldn't suggest going dark by any means, but I think a slight to medium pull-back might be in order.
I don't know exactly what that looks like in your case, but you are a smart lady, I think you could figure it out.
