Here is the issue, how do you change their perception when they don't speak or see you??

I have gone dark, there is no contact, this is a massive difference for me, but I know I have to do it.

On Sunday she came out to the car to give me some bedding for the kids, why?, their new beds don't get delivered until Friday?

Was this an excuse to see me and hold a conversation or was it just bedding???


This is the hard thing for me, I need to stop over thinking everything and just go with it, but it's easier said than done.

So how do you change their thoughts about you, when you are not there, or is that the answer??