So she is working on her plans for her future.

What are you doing about yours?

You need a plan so you won't get caught with your pants around your ankles the day she is going to tell you yours. What would your reaction be?

Meanwhile I'm not saying that you need to rush to put the house on the market but it won't hurt to get some realtors business cards and leave them laying around along with some releastate brochures looking to rent or buy a new place.

You are taking notice of her doings font think she won't notice you "planning" something.

And get to the bottom of the possibility of OM.

You can manage.

Enjoy the Silence