Not sure where to start or end, WAW? - #3

[john28]

Yeah, but basically if she goes through this legal S I'm completely done. I won't pursue anything until that is done (probably tomorrow). I've told her very clearly that if I have to put ink to paper on this separation I'm 100% done. I'm 99% done right now. She knows where I stand. There is no mistaking it.

I have detached people, and I'm not concerned with making my W jealous. I don't even have the urge to talk to her anymore - haven't for at least two weeks really. Believe it or not, I'm there.

As far as having a healthy R with this other person, I'm not goign to pursue this yet. I don't want to. I'm good with myself right now. But, I do see how I've been underappreciated for years and haven't had my needs met. That doesn't mean I'm going to jump in the sack with the person who might have pointed out a little bit of that.