Pinhead, I can sympathise about the children. They'll be affected, but I can see my own kids have been more affected by their Dad's unwillingness to explain or talk about the situation, the future with them, and by seeing him nasty and cold and rejecting of me, than by his leaving. If he'd been kinder and more open to me and to them, instead of refusing to explain or reassure, things would've gone better. I've done explaining on his part, in his absence, tried to be as loyal as possible, stress his love of them, but it's not his apptmt they really dislike, it's having a Dad who's all activities and taking them places, yet refusing to ta


Me: 46
H:42
Together for 18 yrs, married 14.
3 children: 2 girls 13 and 10, one boy 7.
Husband had affair, ended it and then decided on separation.
Separated 08/2010