I haven't done anything, except try not to pursue.
My intention wasn't to avoid her at D's soccer game, it was to coach D and assist on the team sideline. I did offer her a cookie.
As S's game, she did seem to intentionally avoid me. Not sure if that was supposed to be payback for the earlier game or what.
The previous week, she offerred to pick-up some coffee for me when making a run to BK and I politely refused.
I guess I have been trying to show her that my life will go on and I will be fine without her. I have expressed to her too many times in the past that I would be lost without her in my life and was a blubbering idiot. I am trying to show her that I can move on and take care of myself as well as my kids without any help from her.
In what ways would you suggest that I try to lead?
