I am reading people telling you to fight, fight, fight and that your lawyer is wrong when I assume they have no idea what state and county you live in. I am giving you a bit of realism.
Can you reconcile your marriage? That is up to your husband. Should you give him everything he wants in the divorce? No. That is what your attorneys are for, to assist the both of you in coming to a settlement that is fair or equally distributed.
Am I wrong? Absolutely Not. There was a divorce recently in the county adjacent to mine in which the husband was carrying on a series of internet affairs. The wife in concern of her husbands behavior set up security cameras in their house and video taped her husband masterbating in women's clothing with a pair of women's panties over his head in front of a web cam. The couple could not come to a settlement and the video tapes were submitted into evidence in court. Embrassing?
In troubled times people make irrational decisions and listen to unwise advice. And the reference to Tiger Woods, was hoping you noticed, that despite all that he tried, in the end he still needed to live his life and move on.
