I’m sorry I don’t think I explained myself on that point very well. I do not think it’s ok to have sex with people other than your spouse. I would never do it myself. My point was that I was not down in the basement hanging myself every time I thought about her with another man, like I have a feeling some people would be. I have always felt, even before this episode, that in the game of life there are much more important and dramatic things to deal with than sex. That sex to me is not as important or powerful as I see it is for other people. Sex and making love to someone one are two different things; to my knowledge my wife had sex with another man; she did not make love to him. It does not make me boiling mad and jealous to know she had sex with someone else. What bothered me was that she lied to me and that she betrayed me.
