Totally agree with you pinman, it is so tempting when you are having a hard time and feel like you have been kicked while down, but it's not what I want, but after a few drinks it felt like I did!!!
I think it's important that people understand the dangers of drinking in bars full of the opposite sex when you are going through a split, it is not productive.
I have been decorating, but I miss my wife and family, hate this period of my life, but I have to keep positive about the future.
In a way I am actually enjoying having the time to myself, but I love my wife!!
Was is hard is thinking if they are thinking about you, I know you should not do it, but your mind does wander??
