I lost 25 lbs, but have since gained about 10 lbs back.
I've read a bunch of books and have a different attitude about marriage and communication and what her expectations are.
I do a lot more with my kids.
I guess I want to be attractive to her, but at the same time, I do not want to become someone who I am not just to attract her either. Does that make sense?
I am not longer a doormat!
I guess the best answer is to be polite, but to continue to do the things in life that I want or need to do.
