We have both been dark since she left. My W is better at it than I have been. I did pursue some, but have stopped since I have been on this site. Most of my emails that I received from W have been about a D nothing about her possible confussion. My assumption is that she does not want to spend the $$ on a L and wants me to file. Unfortunately, I did everything for her while we were together. She worked and went school, but I paid the bills, helped her with her school editing papers, etc. So she is not use to making BG decisions or spending large amounts of $$.
