My wife was very distant to me at the party and did not offer to help at all.
This is typical Bobby. IMO, this is her boundary. She does NOT want to give you any hope.
Does this change what Bobby will do for Bobby?
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I was told that she had been in touch with her lawyer and wanted to come up with a settlement agreement and wanted us to push forward with the divorce process.
Make sure that you secure good council and let her do all of the work.
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My wife said she did not feel she could stay with me because of the things that were said about her by my mother.
Just another excuse Bobby. This is the “justification” she needs. This Bobby is why we say to keep your mouth shut. Do not give her a reason to be angry or pissed. If this is something that she wants, then let her own it.
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She said she was entitled to these things.
She feels that she is entitled to everything Bobby. Get used to it.
What ever you do…say nothing! Do not agree or commit to nothing.
Bobby, I hope that this does not go legal on you and if it does….do not feel that all hope is lost.
Right now, you need to remain focused on YOU and what YOU need for YOU.
She can ask for the moon and the stars – it does not mean that she will get it.
I suggest that you sit down and write down what you can live with and what YOU think is fair. I would not share it with her but would share it with your Attny.
Hey Bobby, does any of this change what you are going to do for you?
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans