She just called me now. Left a mesaage saying sorry but I need my mini food processer from the house!
Again WTF? She wanted NC now she has it and now she breaks it??
Consider something like: "Since I was told that there was wish for NC, I am confused as to why I then received a phone call."
This puts it back in her lap without blaming or criticizing (imo).
[btw - the word 'you' when stating one's needs in a 'problem area' tend to be counter-productive. 'You' isn't needed here since she knows which phone call is being referred to!]
