Irish,

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Take control of MY life and that of my family.

And what does this ^^^^ mean in literal terms. Give me some clear examples. Something measurable.


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I want to be a better person overall.

How? Get specific. What exactly do you want to change for YOU to be a better person for YOU?

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I want to be a positive light in my family and friends' lives

Believe it or not YOU probably ALREADY are. Take a little credit Irish…you really are a wonderful and strong Mom. It is okay to take credit for the good that is ALREADY in YOU.

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I want to find productive ways to deal with my sadness and hurt.

Once again…give me some specifics. What will you do if all of a sudden your H calls pissed off about something.

You are starting to see Irish what we have been telling you. You are strong..

You will survive and thrive…

God Bless,
Eric


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans