Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

after close to 3months of NC I reached out to my wife initially to talk about divorcing. One thing led to another while we were talking and she asked me out to the movies.

I am in the same situation you were, I was the one who decided to move forward with the legal stuff. After mediation was when I got the call from her stating she was having doubts about D.

It's almost like when you first meet a girl you like and start dating her. You don't tell her you need to be friends first before you date... You just date, and the friendship grows naturally during that time.

I see your point here. It makes sense to me now.

So here are my dilemas:

1.I know I need to lead but can't intiate R talk.

2.She had a hard time communicating what she wants and needs from me and it apears she still does.