The D situation is...he's decided to leave me with the house, which I can't afford. Initially he said he'd take the house and the debt. He's also leaving me with most of the the marital debt, because a majority of it was used for improvements at the house, which I can't afford. I most likely won't get alimony because on paper he doesn't make much more than me per month.
Contest it. You don't have to just say, Okay, sure I will get saddled with all the debts, the house payments, mortage, etc. doesn't work that way, Soa. Get your lawyer working on this. Or at least put on paper what you want (i.e. You want the house to be sold, he can have some furniture, etc). State what you want in writing.
Originally Posted By: pinhead
Then he's just as responsible for the house and paying for it. His credit will be screwed if it gets foreclosed upon. He can't just walk away from his financial responsibilities as easily as his relationship.
Yes.
Originally Posted By: PMA_Baby!
He's just trying to scare you.
Yep. That is exactly what I think.
And at this point, SOA, I agree with Pma on no contact. I don't know how often you reach out to him or anything but my advice is to make a clean break. You are not in any position to deal with him in an emotional level so do not call him or write him or text him. Get your L to write up everything on your behalf and start GALing. I know you are feeling really down and I can't tell you that you'll feel better by the weekend because it's going to take TIME but try to listen to some good music, get some exercise and rent a funny movie.
