Dude, when is this legal stuff getting set because you need to stop financing this crazy situation outside of what you are absolutely legally required to do.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
You need to get your legal affairs in order so that you don't spend so much emotional energy dealing with that part of this situation. ASAP...
Yes! John, this is of utmost importance. Also, I still stick by my advice of not going out w/ anyone in the interim because Mrs. John28 is a live one and will use that to her very last advantage.
Originally Posted By: TimeHeals
I forget, does she have a job yet?
Don't make me laugh, TH. Almost fell outta my chair w/ that one.
In my opinion, what is ridiculous is fighting over every litttle thing. She wants to go to the pumpkin patch so you cancel. Then she retaliates by demanding money and being suspicious that you have a new girlfriend (which you do, by the way). And then you get angry over that fact that she didn't call when you told her in no uncertain terms to stop calling you. How old are the two of you? 5, 8? Both of you need to grow up.
Girlfriend thing is in no way official. However, we did go to dinner together last Friday and have chatted on the phone. She is pursuing very hard. She's very stable, a college professor, seems to have her head on straight.... and frankly that's attractive given my current sitch. She knows what she wants and I have a feeling it's me....
W has all the reason in the world to be suspicious. She knows me very well. I haven't had any kind of intimate emotional or physical contact with anyone for nearly 6 months (except the onesie ML session 6 weeks ago with W). Combined with the fact I went NC on her except on kid/money stuff, she is highly suspicious. She should be. I'm not getting what I want in life. I'm a good enough guy to deserve it.
I just think it's interesting - I've never even LOOKED at another woman in 6 years. Not even crossed my mind, but I'm quickly finding out that I'm quite the catch - I have a great job, super stable, own my own home, am a good father, I'm pretty damn good looking, I'm in shape, etc etc. Sometimes I wonder what W thinks is out there that is better...
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
She's very stable, a college professor, seems to have her head on straight....
So why is she pursuing a married man?
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I have a great job, super stable
How many stalls?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
