Had a pretty good weekend. Took the kids to a farm/amusement park this Sat. Hard to explain. They have some little kid rides, pig races, petting zoo, haunted house, hay ride, pumpkin and apple picking, bon fires, roasted hot dogs, etc. W set it up through the twins group she is Pres. of. I went for the kids. I understand how she works, finally. I am included in things she needs help with the kids and not in activities she thinks she can handle on her own.
We were invited on Sun. to a small hayride and party and I was not included. I made her tell the kids that I wasn't going. They weren't happy.
I asked her a couple of times if she has found any where to stay and didn't get an answer. She still won't leave so I guess I'm stuck for a while longer. It's okay, I have already mourned the loss of my W but don't look forward to losing my family.
A teacher from the kids' school called me on Fri. and asked what was going on with W and the super. I told her to tell me first what she had heard or suspected. Same old story, everything I suspected a year ago is the same thing she talked about. She said they were both warned several times and they and especially he, being an employee, denied it. I asked her, if it came down to it, if she or any other teachers would go to court on my behalf. She said she could only speak for herself and that she would be happy to help me however she could. She thought some others would, too.
I wish I would have done this a year ago instead of burying my head in the sand. I'm feeling pretty good about my custody case. There are several things the teacher said that would help prove she was not watching out for our kids' best interests while she was at school coaching.
She is only concerned with herself and no one else. Too bad the courts don't always take all of this into consideration.
