She is playing you. You have been a doormat for way to long. Have you read "Hold on to your NUTS" book yet? and No more MR. Nice Guy?

Time to call her bluff. You HAVE NOT tried the Robx speech because you have not FOLLOWED THRU.

Tell her that you dont want to be with her either and then tell her to leave. When she makes threats then you tell her to talk to your attorney. Plain and simple. Strong and Confident.

I'm 99.999% sure there is OM. She probably has a prepaid cell. Forget searching. Just set your BOUNDARIES and stick to them.

Hold the line. Show your strength.