I can't imagine how hard it is to look at her everyday? Oh yes I can!! When I moved out for 6 months from my 1st W, (she asked me to) It was tough. Paying for the house and an apt. Finally I said screw this, I'm paying for the house, I'm moving back in. And I did. It was hell. Seperate rooms, I had to watch as she built her "hope chest" of stuff to move with. She was bitchy and angry at me. Fianlly I helped her move and as I went back to give her something that was left in the car she was already on phone with BF! So I know what yoyur going through. Hang tough for your girls..