What goes with the D stuff? Turn your frown upside down today. Do something for yourself. Treat ourself to some ice cream or rent a flick you've been meaning to see.
What goes with the D stuff? Turn your frown upside down today. Do something for yourself. Treat ourself to some ice cream or rent a flick you've been meaning to see.
I feel like I've been doing nothing but "treating" myself. Spending lots of times with friends. I'm still miserable. I miss my husband. I hate to be in my house. I sleep at a friends house every night.
The D situation is...he's decided to leave me with the house, which I can't afford. Initially he said he'd take the house and the debt. He's also leaving me with most of the the marital debt, because a majority of it was used for improvements at the house, which I can't afford. I most likely won't get alimony because on paper he doesn't make much more than me per month.
Get your lawyer working right now. There's no way he can saddle you with the debt. Here's how it generally works: You get half the assets, and half the debt. If you have disparate income levels, the lowest spouse MIGHT get spousal support depending on the variation of your incomes.
Get your lawyer working right now. There's no way he can saddle you with the debt. Here's how it generally works: You get half the assets, and half the debt. If you have disparate income levels, the lowest spouse MIGHT get spousal support depending on the variation of your incomes.
Do you have any equity in your home?
TALK TO YOUR LAWYER ASAP...
I've been talking to my lawyer. No equity what so ever. We are upside down or "underwater" on the house.
Then he's just as responsible for the house and paying for it. His credit will be screwed if it gets foreclosed upon. He can't just walk away from his financial responsibilities as easily as his relationship.
Then he's just as responsible for the house and paying for it. His credit will be screwed if it gets foreclosed upon. He can't just walk away from his financial responsibilities as easily as his relationship.
Stupidly, my name is on the mortgage. His is not. We are both in title. The reason for my name only being on the mortgage is that I was able to qualify without his income or credit score, in fact, his credit score was going to hurt our interest rate, so...it will only hurt my credit.
I agree. He's liable for half no matter what state you're in.
He's just trying to scare you.
He's either very immature or emotionally involved with OW.
Either way. It doesnt matter. All you can do is MOVE ON... and PROTECT YOURSELF... Time to take back CONTROL. Give him what he wants. Seperate accounts. Go dark.
