I also remember him saying that she was tired of mothering him ie putting limits on him that he should have been able to put on himself. So then when they consider themselves "free"(though still married) he is out with someone for sex that probably wasn't putting any limits on him and he felt in charge. Sounds like he has some work to do on his end if he wants to stay married. Only have heard his side so can't offer anything up on her. Except maybe let your man grow up, if he comes back he is yours, if he doesn't he never was.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I can't believe he did that on a radio show. Just shows you how crazy these people can't get.
Hello!!!! Put a filter on yourself.
As for the miners.... I can say he didn't look all gaga in love with her when he came up....more uncomfortable I thought.
I think the wife .... dropped the rope!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
I wonder how he would have reacted if his wife was on the end of the rope" pulling " him up. I always thought men liked to keep the mistress kind of hidden away, well this one isn't anymore!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Admitting on the radio for the country to hear that you slept with someone else while you "are on a break"(pardon the friends humor)with your spouse is tacky and heartless. He could have side stepped the question all together or better yet never even done it in the first place!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Spent the whole weekend basically sleeping and fighting a bad cough and fever. Yuck!! Still back at work today because someone has to be .
Busy week with arranging the car rental tonight, taking the car to the shop tomorrow, parent teacher conferences Wednesday and Thursday(22 teachers in 2 evenings!!) and possibly collapsing on Friday. I get tired just thinking about it. Oh and I get to pick up my car in there somewhere too.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I only woke myself up a couple of times, so big improvement. I dashed around and got to the car place but they weren't open yet so I thought I would get the rental and then bring my car key back to the shop. The rental place shocks me because they know I am in a hurry this morning and they bring me the rental!(nice!!) So I dash in to give the shop my key, I have to stop by home because I forgot to take my cold meds(and I am feeling it) and then on to work. Not too bad.
The rental is a chevy cobalt. I had rented one before and liked it but I love my Honda. Soon my car will be back in tip top shape and then I can get back to taking care of normal day to day stuff.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Sounds hectic! Your car will be in tip top shape and so will you soon
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
