I seriously think that she has a mental block about money right now. Can't think about our relationship clearly at all. She said that she can't separate her feelings for me from her feelings for the "family" meaning the girls. She spoke about how hard it was growing up with her dad's on again off again employment, how having to leave their dream house after 2 years was horrible.
So now she has to contemplate leaving her own dream house. I foresee spew and drama.
When I mentioned Retro to her, in her sister's hometown to boot, there was absolutely no reaction. No desire at all to work on US. I really think the marriage is dead.
Yeah, a lot of mind reading in there, I know...
Last edited by pinhead; 10/18/1003:33 PM. Reason: mindreading is fun if you're stupid or drunk. Not so much on a Monday