My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

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However....In an attempt to GAL, I told her Thursday that I was going out this weekend and asked if Fri or Sat was better. She said either, so I made plans with a male friend for Fri. I did not disclose anything to W about where I was going or with whom. Then on Sat afternoon, she tells me that "she's going to get out of here for a bit tonight if I don't mind". I said sure. I know she was just trying to match what I did and score a point for her.

She dressed nicely, but not over the top. She left home at 6 and returned at 11 (I was gone 2.5 hours when I went out). I have no idea where she was or what she was doing.

We have both committed twice to no dating while we're still living together and she says she's honoring that commitment.