Her reasons are (1) I put work ahead of family (and have been moody and distant regarding it), (2) I've disregarded her opinions for years and (3) I've sexually objectified her for years by requesting actions she's not comfortable with (but did anyway - now she says I've "railroaded" her for years)
My take on her reasons are: I think she is and has been depressed. She works extremely hard and deals with difficult situations (emotionally charged) around the clock - often at night. She doesn't sleep well. Gets up very early and works long days. We've allowed our kids to develop poor sleep habits and they are up a lot and in our bed a lot. This has contributed (for months and months) to a lack for sleep for W. She is exhausted. My work has been stressful and I have been moody and distant. But I think she is horribly depressed. She 100% blames me for our issues. No matter how bad I am, I don't know of any marriage where the issues are 100% one persons.
M: 39 W: 37 Married: 9 D5; S3 "It's Over" 09/26/10 11 Day Sep 10/10 Piecing Starts 11/4/10 Piecing Fails 4/11 I move out 5/11 Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11 Piecing #2 - 6/22/11 Home 10/11
