Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[TimeHeals]

Did you both go from NC to going out on a date after the "talk"?

We tried dating first after 7 weeks of darkness, then she pitched the "friends" thing because she didn't "feel" what she wanted to feel, then I went dark for about 2 weeks, she got upset I didn't want to be her friend, then I spoke to her long enough for her to ask me out (and I was not really so sure doing anything was a good idea), and she asked if it was OK that we not date other people.

Then romance/honeymoon period, and things are generally on coarse, but stuff does come up, and sometimes there are challenges still, and the story is not over;it's just not filled with negative drama, and stuff gets dealth with if it comes up now.

PS. I don't and never did buy into these terms "fog" and "alien". I think they are condescending and innaccurate. Just because somebody checks out of a relationship doesn't mean they are neccessarily in a fog or have turned into an alien, and that's all that has really happened: they don't feel love for you. Be honest about it.