How can you recommit with someone your not friends with?
What do you want me to tell you?
I can tell you what happened in our case. I said, "I don't want to be your friend" to the whole friends thing because I know there is no way any woman I would want to date would put up with me being friends with my ex wife.
So we skipped that and went to dating (actually, I dropped the "not going to be your friend" bomb, and I went dark for a couple of weeks despite a lot of phone calls and emails).
Now we are piecing things back together slowly. So?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-