I met with the L and I have some paper to dig through. Ultimately, it appears that my original equity will pay her out of the debt back to "run away with a dollar" (She got away with this last R, too. I get to be her financial and emotional bankruptcy bail-out)
Truck is gone. She is off my insurance. I had a few hours of texts Thurs-Saturday over this.
Taxes are done. I'll owe either the govt and/or her a total of about 1600. But in Feb I stand to pull back about 3K based on how we split the taxes this time.
Other than the house (which needs to be laid out in the Sep Agreement), I've done all I need to lead on.
Now I need to get my head around how to proceed from here. I'm thinking really quite dark. Other than D2 I have nothing left to talk about with her.
And I will NOT be leading the Sep Agreement as the current situation is working. If she starts going against the "mutually agreed" arrangement, I'll call the L. Otherewise, setting up mediation is heavy lifting for her.
For entertainmemnt, in the last two weeks (and really crazy last week) she has- -flagged me down in traffic to join up and discuss a moot point -reminded me of a nickname we called D2 like it was 3 years ago -told me about her mood/day three times -talked about Christmas gifts -talked about D2's birthday party (late Feb) -resistance/asked why to giving back my vanity plate. (It has the 'code name' of our family with MY relatives)
Not gonna mindread the intention but the net result suggests she is all over the place.
I could get into more detail on the exchanges but unless someone wants to see it, it is short of standing in the doorway so it is pointless to me.
I'll try to post again later but I'm planning on going dark starting Wednesday. All financial stuff should be completed to the LAST detail by then and then I'm "off" for a few days of R&R.
