Thanks for the advice, your right.

I start re-decorating tonight so that should keep me busy for a while.

I just hope we can sort this, but I need to look after me!!

When I was out on Saturday, I got a fair bit of attention from a few women, did my confidence the world of good, but what do I do, I love my wife and want her back, but how long do you wait?

I think it's best to stay away from bars for a while, as temptation is there and it could undo all my hard work that I'm doing on me if I took somebody out for a drink and my wife found out, it would just look like I wasn't bothered.