I have pretty healthy self esteem. Your point is taken and that is exactly why I am going to insist she leave.

Concur on the dead marriage if she is having or has had an EA/PA and I am not taking the chance she isnt.. because the facts are in my face.

thanks!

question? How would you recommend I ask for proof?

M:42
W:39
S:9
M:20
T:25
D-bomb: 30 Sep 10
Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10
Working on it: 31 Oct 10