WAW 20 years and wants out

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Steve, OM is a 3rd level Black Belt, WAW is Probationary Black.

Thanks Gut I am hopeful.. I have a IC today and then we both go for MC tonight.. I am going to let the words from the MC do their work and tomorrow we have a Parent Teacher Conf.. I plan to tell her tomorrow I want her to move out and be free. I plan to tell her:
"I have been thinking about this and I am not going to be in an open marriage and I am not going to stay with you while you are involved with another Man. I dont know what I am feeling about our marriage now and you have until the end of Oct to find a place to to stay and move out."

My follow up if required is:
"I dont want to stay married to someone who doesnt respect me, and you wanted me to NOT be controlling, so I am not. This is your decision. You want your space you now have it"

How is that folks?