I have been asked to start a new thread. I am not sure why since I do not think my sitch will change much and I am in a good phase in regard to detaching.
I basically told my STBXW that if she wants a D that she needs to retain the L and process the paperwork herself. That was three weeks ago and I have not heard from her since. Either she has done that or she still wants me to hold her hand or most likely wants to me to pay for everything...who knows and I really do not care or give a _ _ _ _! I guess I will once I find someone whom I am compatable with and want to rid myself of this sitch, but for now I am not ready for that...finding someone that is.
