I ask her what may make her happy and she says I don't know. I also ask what she needs from me and again she says I don't know.
norstar,
IMHO this isn't leading. She doesn't want to talk/think about the R. So don't. Ask her "I'm going to see (insert favorite band here) play at the (insert favorite venue) here, wanna come?" and if she does, have fun, if not, have fun without her. Be the guy you would want to be without her, and let her follow you.
M:37 W:34 M:4 years T:6 years No Kids A disclosed - 9/1/2010 W asks for separation - 10/19/2010 Moving on - 10/24/2010 A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010 Content - 3/1/2011 Served - 3/18/2011 D Day - 6/20/2011
