I wouldn't lighten up yet. She isn't truly pursuing you yet, she is interested but not worried yet that you have moved on. So keep detaching and keep doing what works...this is working...but you still have a ways to go so keep it up
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11