Wrong answer. They are her kids as well as yours. If you do not let her talk to the kids, you are keeping their mother away from them. Let me put it this way...if there were a time you really missed your kids when they're with her, would you want her to not "allow" you to talk to them?
She has equal claim to them even though it may not seem fair. It's not a boundary. It's being petty.
You don't need to talk to her. When you don't call the kids when she has them, that's YOUR CHOICE. They are your kids right? Then why not call them when you want? Unless of course you don't want to talk to them.
She probably has caller ID so if hearing the sound of her voice bothers you so much, then tell her that when she sees your number, to just give the phone directly to the kids.
Don't seed anything now that you're going to regret from your side, later.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
