Man, I hate that I still stop in here still from time to time. The selfishness of a WAS still pisses me off. You said that you are not sleeping in your own bed. Why? Take it back, you are not the one that wants to leave. If she doesn't want to share a bed with you, let her sleep on the couch/in the spare room. She is using her cell for contact with OM? Are you paying for that phone, if so, shut it off, YOU DO NOT SUPPORT HER AFFAIR IN ANY WAY!!! Financially or other. If she is mad, oh well. She can be mad. You need some serious boundaries to be set, and unfortunately, I do not know which Vets are still on these boards to help with that as we have lost some good people recently on here.
