Mystik, I'm going to keep sending the 2 x 4s. smile

Look, you *know* I know where you're coming from, right down to the preg whore. I'm telling you, UNTIL and UNLESS you let him go, and become very assertive about this D... you'll regret it.

Here's what I think in a nut shell.

1/ He's still alien abducted. You can't change that. Don't try.
2/ He'll be back. He wanted to leave before, that'll happen again.
3/ You have 2 choices you can either HELP that process by getting the hell out of the way, LETTING HIM GO BIG TIME and that will LET him finally find his way back to you... OR
4/ You can keep on trying to HOLD on... and prolong this agony you're in AND... incidentally wreck any chance of him coming back to you.

Think of holding on as pushing him away... cuz that is what the result is.

Become that person that only an idiot wouldn't want to be with.

You have that time USE IT WISELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As for the legal aspect.. he's trying to black mail you.. (I sold homes for 10 years and am a good negotiator).. TURN this around on him. Put it straight at him: You want your frikkin' D... you'll get it when you GIVE ME MY MONEY!

*hugs*
Abs

Last edited by Abbey; 10/18/10 02:11 AM.
T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.