AB, Excellent post... You are spot on in your analysis of why the husbands run...it is a cowards way out... These guys have no kahones...if they did they would stay and work with their spouse thru MC/IC to resolve the problems... I have seen alot of these affairs in my life, and I cannot remember any that were a success...in 12-24 months most of them are over... I am into 4 months now with my seperation and a WAW... Some days she wants to talk and visit with me, and then a few days later it is like the demon from hill got ahold of her... I am like you because finding this site has been a true blessing to me...it has helped me deal with this stressful situation, and I would not have handled it well had I not found this site and read alot of the great posts... Alot of us are going thru similiar situations, and it sure helps to mentor and share our stories together... Stay positive...
