That is your attitude.... You are not mean, you are not punitive, you are not talking about anything except her leaving and you are done. Nothing to talk about. She made her choice and now YOU agree with her.
Originally Posted By: robx
Pensa, "dark" is not the plan, kicking her to the curb and meaning it (not pretending) is the plan, this isn't a game of who can maintain no contact/going dark the longest, you have to mean it. She cheated on you, she f!@#$%*'d up, now she lost you, game over, case closed. As far as you're concerned, it's over for real and she has to deal with the consequences of that.
Both really excellent posts. Read them over and over again Pensacola and follow the advice. She wants out... let her go.
