There was at least an EA with OM. Lots of phone calls and texts. Guy was married and ended up trying to bag another affair that W found out about, so that is off as far as I know.

I am basically trying the "let her go" strategy espoused by Gucci and Robx.

I think you may have a good strategy there. Maybe I should start to try to rekindle a bit when we are together. I won't contact her, but if we happen to be in proximity, perhaps some talk would be good.

I'll have to think about it. We have been separated about 6 weeks now and nothing is changing. If this isn't working, perhaps a change in tactics is appropriate.

Thank for the perspective.