I've only just begun!

[newmama]

Hi Sandycay, thanks for commenting on my thread! I see you are dating but a little farther along than I am...i.e. you have been in a relationship with someone and have seen another a few times!

that maybe because there was a nice man in front of me with nothing overly wrong.... I jumped on the relationship for fear it was the one and never really took my time with that.

I hear you...we always hear things like the best love relationships are those where you start as friends first...but if the man is romantically interested, it's not really "friends" is it? And what about accidentally leading the man on and only breaking his heart down the line? I know if the roles were reversed I wouldn't want to be doing what I did with stbxh where I was waiting around for him to decide to choose me!

how do you navigate this? argh!!