Wife is cheating, am sad but confused?

[HopelessInLove]

Thanks for the kick in the pants!

It has felt like and eternity since I was M and in a good R with W. I do know that it will take time.

In our conversation today, I remember now as I read your relpy TG, W said she was starting to feel a little more comfortable with me. She was feeling little pressure and things were more relaxed. She then found out that I contacted a L. W then was upset with me. She did seem less angry up until Tuesday of this week when she called L.

I am done snooping! I have stopped recordings, I think I have enough info. And I want to stop the insanity.

I feel like I am just getting burned out thinking so much about everything. I know I need to keep on detaching.

Any thoughts on recharging battery? I am exercising regularly, doing a little more reading, talking with family more, and spending quality time with kids. Recharging with the kids is a hard one- 2 fold they are young and have a lot of energy, and reminds me of their mother and our family.