You want to know what men who are the most successful do in getting a woman back?
They dump HER. They have a backbone. Their attitude is "I don't share my woman with any man."... "If SHE so chooses to be with someone else, she can NOT have me too. It isn't up for negotiation" "One of us needs to leave and I HAVE DECIDED that YOU should find another place to stay, this isn't working and I am not sure how I feel right now. I think we should separate. I want you to find a place as soon as possible, maybe with your "friend would be a good idea I will give you one week to find a place and move out."
And then the men who are the most successful with getting a woman back do exactly what I just described. No anger except to call her behavior exactly what it is. No more talk. Only action. An attitude of "this is what I HAVE DECIDED... No negotiation or talk. ACTION...
And then you don't budge on your position and you end up making HER feel that she got dumped. Women hate to be dumped. They hate it. They also deep down inside RESPECT a man who won't take their sh*t and has the emotional strength to take them or leave them. They suddenly see you more as a man than a wimp.
You won't see men on this site doing that very often, but when you do see one, he is almost always relieved, feeling stronger immediately and fnally feeling good. Men that wait around and can't get tough with a woman are the ones who are on here for months going into years. Their self esteem isn't high enough to let them realize that they CAN DO BETTER...
