I guess it was just a fantasy to be able to keep our house. Part of me probably thought that I'd be moving back in eventually. Not detached...
So now I have to figure out how soon we can sell, when to put it on the market, and so forth. I'm sure that'll change her feelings, as she'll have to be uprooted as well. So I expect either spew, or more of her "I'll do anything" to try and get me to stay. Or anger at our finances.
But I've also realized our debt isn't (cash-flow wise) a really big issue. It's about a car payment a month, so having it all paid off won't make a huge diff in our finances. It's just that we've got a house that almost requires two incomes.
