Not perfect, but a million times different and that is how I slowly show him a new R with me, cause each time he comes up here and it is good, and fun, and different, he carves more. I also sent him a very flitry text yesterday morning, I know he loved it and he texted back a flirty one.
I see you framing your changes FOR him to SHOW him.
Not your job.
Remember how long it took you to detach from all of this and the pain. And you haven't forgotten that.
We as LBS's wait so long and then finally we see some change and it gives us that little burst of
OH my! can they be coming out of this?!
Stop watching him. Stop trying to show him.
What does a person (any person) who you would consider sharing your life with look like?
What does H look like when you would consider sharing and trusting all you have gained through this process?
I think when we have gained our strength and ourselves then we really become that
person to be pursued. The person they desire again.
Then it is up to the LBS to decide IF they want a relationship.
and when.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
